When Relationships Break, His Love Remains
Hi Daddy,
I honestly don’t know how I’m feeling today. I know I’m hurt and somewhat sad. You know, my friend W and I have had a pretty complicated relationship this past year. It’s been really tough for me because I’ve always considered her my sister. I know we both deeply loved each other, and I say that in the past tense because I can only speak to how I feel about her now.
The last time we spoke, things seemed okay. But after that, I felt silence, and I honestly grew tired of always being the one to reach out, always trying to figure out what was wrong. I wanted to keep reaching out, but it took every ounce of self-control not to.
There are very few people, outside of my family, that I love that deeply.
So, I finally decided to reach out one last time after I found out something shocking. But her responses felt distant. And because I tend to be very critical of myself (I know it’s wrong), I started wondering if maybe she hated me to be this cold, or if I did something wrong. I want to let go, but part of me also wants to know what happened.
At the end of the day, though, I know that despite everything, Your love for me never wavers. I’m reminded of Psalm 34:18—"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Even when I feel distant from others, I can find comfort in knowing You are near and will carry me through.
The Thanksgiving Prayer
Daddy, I come to You with a heart full of gratitude today. Thank You for removing people from my life who were never meant to stay, no matter how much I tried to fix things or hold on.
You know the hearts and intentions of everyone, and You see beyond what I can. In moments when it didn’t make sense and I felt uncertain, You were always working behind the scenes to protect me.
Even when it was painful, even when I didn’t understand, I can now see that You were guiding me away from what wasn’t meant for me. Thank You for always looking out for me, even in times when I didn’t see it or understand it.
Thank You for helping me recognize the right moment to let go and trust You completely. I’m thankful that You give me the strength to walk away, knowing You have better things in store for me.
Even when it doesn’t look like it in specific moments, I know You are orchestrating everything for my good.
Thank You for Your perfect timing, and for leading me to the right people who will walk with me, support me, and help me become who You’ve created me to be.
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. — Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)
Love,
Your Daughter
